When therapy sessions feel like going in circles…


Hey there,

Many therapists are burned out because they’ve found themselves in this cycle:

  • Clients return week after week with the same symptoms and complaints
  • Therapeutic insights don't translate into behavioral or emotional changes
  • You feel like you're providing emotional support rather than creating actual healing
  • Progress is so slow that both you and your clients begin to question whether therapy is working

Fortunately, this doesn’t mean you’re a “bad therapist.” In fact, you probably are a skilled therapist doing excellent work within the constraints of your training.

But your tools may be inadequate.

So how do you get better results for your clients?

The EMDR Difference in Clinical Practice

I've spoken with countless therapists who describe a complete shift in their practice after EMDR training.

Here's what they typically report:

Before EMDR training:

  • Clients with PTSD made slow, gradual progress over years
  • Panic attacks, phobias, and intrusive memories required long-term management strategies
  • Childhood trauma clients could talk about their experiences but remained emotionally triggered by them
  • Sessions often felt like you were helping clients cope with symptoms rather than resolving underlying issues

After EMDR training:

  • Clients process traumatic memories that have been problematic for decades, often in a matter of sessions
  • PTSD symptoms like nightmares, hypervigilance, and emotional numbness frequently resolve completely
  • Panic attacks and phobias that seemed entrenched often disappear after targeting the underlying memories
  • Clients stop being triggered by past events and develop genuine emotional resilience

The difference isn't subtle, either.

EMDR often produces changes that traditional talk therapy approaches struggle to achieve (through bilateral stimulation and memory reprocessing protocols).

​And when you start consistently seeing your clients overcome problems that previously seemed intractable, everything about your professional experience changes.

Instead of dreading sessions with "difficult" cases or feeling helpless with stuck clients...

You feel confident.

As one therapist I know said:

"I was considering leaving the field, but EMDR breathed new life into my practice!"

This is what resolves the professional burnout that comes from ineffective tools.

When you can consistently help people in meaningful ways (and the results reflect it), your work becomes energizing rather than constantly feeling drained.

The Practical Reality of Different Outcomes

So what makes EMDR such a great option?

It comes down to a variety of factors, but here's what the difference looks like in practice (according to my own experience):

Traditional approach with depression client: Months of exploring thought patterns, developing coping strategies, and processing feelings. Client reports feeling somewhat better but still struggles with low self-worth and negative thinking patterns that persist despite therapeutic work.

EMDR approach with same client: Target the specific memories and experiences that created the negative self-beliefs. Process the emotional charge around formative incidents. Install positive beliefs that feel genuinely true rather than aspirational. Client experiences fundamental shift in self-perception.

Traditional approach with anxiety client: Teaching relaxation techniques, cognitive restructuring, and gradual exposure. Client learns to manage anxiety better but remains fundamentally anxious person who has developed good coping skills.

EMDR approach with same client: Identify and process the root experiences that created the anxiety response. Target specific triggers and the memories that give them power. Client's nervous system learns that old threats are no longer present. Anxiety often resolves at the source rather than requiring ongoing management.

What If It's Not About You?

If you find yourself:

  • Frustrated by the pace of change in your therapy sessions
  • Working with clients who seem "stuck" (despite your best efforts)
  • Wondering whether you're really helping people improve their lives (or just helping them cope)

The issue probably isn’t a lack of skill. It’s about the tools in your toolbox.

For many therapists, EMDR fundamentally changes what's possible in the therapy room.

So if you’re not EMDR trained yet and have felt the signs of burnout, consider taking an EMDRIA-approved basic training this year. You can also join our pilot community being built by Helicon to connect with seasoned EMDR providers and learn from them (but that doesn’t replace the complete training).

If you’re not EMDR trained yet, hit reply and let me know what’s holding you back. I’d love to explore how Helicon can help more therapists enter the field of EMDR.

Until next time,

Chris



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