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Hey there, If you've practiced EMDR for any length of time, maybe you've had a session like this: You’re in Phase 2, introducing the Container or Calm Place, and your client squints, pauses, and says, "I just see black. I can't picture anything." You might’ve first considered that your client is being resistant, severely dissociative, or just distracted, as many therapists do. The answer is often much simpler than that: Some clients can't visualize. In fact, roughly 3-5% of the population has aphantasia (the inability to form voluntary mental images), and many more have a weaker or more abstract style of imagery than the standard resourcing exercises assume. When we hand these clients Calm Place or Container as their primary resource, we're essentially asking them to build something out of a material they don't have. Luckily, there’s good news. Visualization is just one delivery system, and there are plenty of other ways to build the same resources for clients whose brains don't work in pictures. I’ll walk through a few today. CountingThis is one of the simplest, most underused tools. Counting works because it engages working memory, occupies the verbal-analytical system, and creates a rhythm the nervous system can follow. It doesn't require imagery, doesn't require closed eyes, and doesn't require any particular disposition on your client's part. But it does help bring nervous system resources away from the amygdala and back into the frontal cortex. This can be approached several different ways too, depending on the client's immediate state of autonomic arousal:
None of these are flashy, but they work. More importantly, none of these techniques require your client to build anything in their imagination. BreathingPaced breathing is one of the most reliable tools for down-regulation, which also doesn't require any visualization at all. Box breathing, 4-7-8, physiological sighs, and coherent breathing (roughly 5-6 breaths per minute) all engage the parasympathetic nervous system through extended exhales and rhythmic patterns. For clients who can't visualize, breathing can carry a lot of what imagery-based resources are supposed to do.
To take it a step further, teaching the "why" behind the breath directly to your client makes it exponentially more effective. When clients understand that an extended exhale physically slows down heart rate via the vagus nerve, it shifts the tool from a "distraction exercise" into an active physiological lever. That psychoeducation builds clinical buy-in, especially for analytical or skeptical clients. The 5 SensesSensory grounding is often the strongest option for clients who struggle with visual imagery, and it works exceptionally well for dissociative clients who are too trapped in their internal experience for guided imagery to reach them anyway. The classic 5-4-3-2-1 is a great entry point:
You can also go deeper into each sense for clients who need richer grounding. This could be texture, temperature, weight, or pressure, just to name a few. The whole point behind sensory grounding is less about running through a checklist, and more about bringing your client's attention fully into the sensory reality of the present moment. For a quick, portable version in session, you could also ask your client to identify three hyper-specific micro-features in the room they wouldn't normally notice (e.g., the weave of the rug, the reflection on a desk leg, the texture of a picture frame). This activates the exact same orienting response as a full 5-4-3-2-1 sequence and moves your client from “internal” to “external,” but in a fraction of the time. Somatic ToolsFor clients who can’t visualize but do have a felt sense of their body, somatic resources can be more powerful than imagery-based work: The Spiral Technique. Your client locates where the stress is held in the body (often the chest or belly), notices which direction the sensation seems to be moving or rotating, and then intentionally reverses the direction. It sounds simple, but it works surprisingly well for clients who can access body sensation but not mental imagery. Grounding through the feet. Your client presses their feet into the floor and brings awareness to the physical downward pressure, the contact of shoe on floor, the weight of their body distributed through the soles. This is essentially a body-based Container: something solid, present, and holding. Body tapping. Not bilateral stimulation exactly, but slow, rhythmic tapping on the collarbones, thighs, or arms. It creates a felt rhythm the nervous system can organize around, and it doesn't require imagination. Weighted or textured objects. Some clients respond well to holding something with weight (a heavy stone, a weighted blanket, a full water bottle) or something with texture (a stress ball, a rough fabric). The tactile input becomes the anchor. For a lot of clients, somatic tools produce a felt sense of safety and regulation that imagery-based work never quite reaches. A Note on the Container SpecificallyIf Container is where you're getting stuck (i.e. your client can't seem to picture one, or the one they build doesn't feel real to them), keep in mind that it doesn't necessarily have to be a mental image. A Container can also be:
(Note: The whole point of Container is to allow your client to set down activated material between sessions. If a physical or somatic version of that gets you there, it's still a Container!) A Delivery Problem, Not a Treatment ProblemIf a client can't visualize, don’t panic. This is a mechanics issue, not a clinical dead end. Remember, the underlying mechanisms of EMDR resourcing (down-regulation, present-moment orientation, containment, self-regulation) don't require imagery. As long as the tool reliably anchors the client in the present moment and down-regulates distress, the resource is doing its job. Imagery is the most common route, but it isn't the only one. For non-visualizers, counting, breathing, sensory grounding, and somatic tools do the same clinical work through different channels. Sometimes better, actually, because they bypass the cognitive layer entirely and work directly with the nervous system. Granted, building a solid stabilization toolkit for a non-visualizer takes more time than it does for a client who lands Calm Place on the first try. The time, however, is far from wasted. I like to think of it as this: Far from delaying progress, spending the extra time to build custom, non-visual resources allows you to widen their window of tolerance and build the precise neural infrastructure that will keep Phase 4 safe and effective. Have you found tools that work particularly well for clients who can't visualize? Hit reply and let me know. I'd love to hear what's been working in your practice. Until next time, Chris P.S. If you’re wondering why I keep returning to Phase 2, it’s because this is an important phase that a lot of therapists don’t give enough time and attention to. I aim to change that, and I hope you enjoyed this one! Feel free to read other posts on this topic: Thanks for reading Helicon's EMDR Therapist Weekly, where we aim to provide a weekly dose of insights, tools, and opportunities for EMDR therapists; designed to support your growth, sharpen your practice, and connect you with what's next. Disclaimer: The information contained in this article is for informational purposes only. This is not legal or clinical advice and we make no guarantees about the outcomes or results from information shared in this document. Proceed at your own risk and discretion. |
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